3 Tips to Keep Lawyer’s Fees Down

#1 – Offer Assistance:  There are tasks you can do to save attorney and paralegal time.  For example, in a divorce proceeding, you can do some of the legwork to obtain certain real estate documents from the Recorder of Deeds.  Check with your attorney to see how you can help in your case.  Most attorneys welcome involvement from their clients.

#2 – Be Organized & Responsive:  Keep excellent financial records and provide requested documents to your attorney in an organized and timely manner.  By doing so, your attorney will be able to more efficiently draft legal documents and schedule necessary court dates.

#3 – Streamline Your Communications:  When you ask a question, a good lawyer will provide a thorough and prompt response.  Remember that lawyers charge for their time (including time answering questions via phone and email).  Consider these alternatives:  Option #1:  Write down minor questions and then set a phone meeting to discuss them at one time; or Option #2:  Condense your questions into one email.  These options may cut down on a costly back-and-forth.  Of course, if your question is time-sensitive or involves a matter of great importance, be sure to contact your attorney right away.

In addition to reducing the cost of your case, these tips may help you more quickly reach a reasonable resolution.

Be aware every situation is unique.  If you have questions about your individual situation, please contact an attorney.  This post should not be considered legal advice.

What is a Parenting Plan?

A Parenting Plan is a court document that outlines how parents will raise their children.  These parenting plans can memorialize the terms parents mutually agree upon, or, if parents do not agree, a judge can enter his or her own terms after a hearing.  Under Missouri Law, Parenting Plans address the following parenting topics, among others:

  1. Parental decision making;
  2. Transportation and logistics;
  3. Communication between the parents and the children;
  4. Choice of school;
  5. How parenting time will be shared throughout the year; and
  6. How the children will be supported financially.

How long does a Parenting Plan last?

The terms of a Parenting Plan remain in place until a child emancipates, or until the judge orders other terms – either by agreement of the parents, or after a hearing.  Parents are required to follow the Parenting Plan, so it is important that the terms of the Plan clearly and accurately reflect their intentions.

Is a Parenting Plan enforceable?

Yes.  Once a judge signs a Parenting Plan, it is an enforceable court order.  Hopefully parents will be able to co-parent informally, however, in the event a disagreement arises, parents are bound by the Parenting Plan so it is important that everyone is comfortable with the Plan that is signed by the judge.

Can the terms of a Parenting Plan be changed?

Terms relating to the custody and support of children may be modified under certain circumstances.  For example, if the custody provisions are no longer in a child’s best interests, the judge may modify those terms.  Terms relating to the support of children may also be modified under certain circumstances.  The modifiability of a Parenting Plan is heavily dependent upon the individual facts.

Parents sometimes wish to informally change the financial terms of their Parenting Plan, however, any changes to financial terms should be done through the formal court process and should not be done informally.  For example, if the recipient of child support wishes to waive child support (or any other payments), it is always best to do so with a formal court order, signed by a judge.  If you intend to make changes to your Parenting Plan, it is advisable to first talk with an attorney.

Be aware every situation is unique.  If you have questions about your individual situation, please contact us.  This post should not be considered legal advice.

For more information about Parenting Plans, see Mo. Rev. Stat. §452.310.

Getting Started.

Your family case starts with a short phone call.  We want you to get to know us, so you will be talking with an attorney right away.  During that first call we will gather some basic facts and answer your urgent questions.

We will then schedule a longer, in-person consultation to review your situation in more detail.  During our first meeting, we will provide you with additional legal advice and answer your questions.  We will also discuss the available options to help you reach a resolution.

At the end of our first meeting, we want you to be comfortable with your team.  We also want you to have a clear roadmap of what to expect moving forward.  We look forward to talking with you.

Be aware every situation is unique.  If you have questions about your individual situation, please contact an attorney.  This post should not be considered legal advice.

Should You Move Out During a Divorce?

There’s no question it can be difficult to reside with your spouse during the divorce process. It may be tempting to separate, but before you do, you may want to consider the following questions (just to name a few):

Where will your children live? Under Missouri Statute 452.310.3, “Until permitted by order of the court, neither parent shall remove any child from the jurisdiction of the court or from any parent with whom the child has primarily resided for the sixty days immediately preceding the filing of the petition for dissolution of marriage or legal separation.” Translation: if you move out of the home without the court’s permission, the children may need to be in the care of the parent who is still in the marital home.

What about maintenance (alimony)? The amount of maintenance is based, in large part, on a person’s need for maintenance. If you move out of the marital home and decrease your living expenses, you may inadvertently lower your standard of living. The court may then determine how much maintenance you need based on this new, lower standard of living. This may result in less maintenance than you would have received had you stayed in the marital home.

Can you afford to move out? Paying for one house with two incomes is hard enough. When you separate, there may not be enough money to maintain two homes. There is no guarantee the court will require one spouse to support the new residence of the other spouse during a pending divorce proceeding. An added benefit to staying in the marital home is that you know it will be cared for properly

Are you able to purchase a new home? If you plan to borrow money to purchase a separate home for yourself while you are still married, you will need your spouse’s consent (and there is no requirement he or she will give that consent). You should be very careful when entering into any contracts for the purchase of real estate if it depends on the cooperation of your spouse – cooperation that is certainly not guaranteed during a divorce!

There are times when it may be appropriate to separate prior to the entry of the divorce judgment. For example, where domestic violence is present or where an agreement to separate has been formalized between the parties and the court has signed off on the agreement. Before you make any big decisions, such as moving out of the marital home, it is important to consult with an attorney.

Be aware every situation is unique. If you have questions about your individual situation, please contact an attorney. This post should not be considered legal advice.

When is My Divorce Judgment Final?

There is often some confusion surrounding this question.  Simple Answer:  you will be divorced on the day the judge signs your divorce judgment.  Complicated Answer:  Although you will be divorced on the day the judge signs your divorce judgment, the law allows for up to 40 days for each party (if they so choose) to file certain requests with the court which could effect the finality of the divorce judgment.  Due to this uncertainty, big life decisions that are dependent upon your status as a single person, such as buying a house, or getting remarried, should be put on hold until 40 days have passed.  If you need to take any such action during the 40 days following the entry of your divorce judgment, it would be best to contact an attorney to discuss your situation in more detail.

Be aware every situation is unique.  If you have questions about your individual situation, please contact an attorney.  This post should not be considered to have formed an attorney/client relationship and should not be considered legal advice.

Common Law Marriage – What is it?

Marriage has not always been as formal as we see it today. In fact, marriages were once private agreements between individuals and families. In 1753, Britain passed The Marriage Act, the first statutory legislation in England to require formal marriage ceremonies, but this did not apply to Britain’s overseas colonies of the time, so common law marriage continued to be recognized in the future United States. Common law marriage can still be contracted in the U.S. in Alabama, Colorado, Iowa, Kansas, Montana, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, Utah and Washington D.C.

The Missouri legislature has rejected the idea of common law marriage. BUT, Missouri may recognize common law marriages properly contracted in the states listed above. This sounds simple enough, but picture this:

Joe and Sally were “common law married” in Colorado. They lived together and called each other husband and wife. Sally even took Joe’s last name and they bought a house together, opened a few bank accounts in joint names and bought a couple of cars. A few years down the road, Joe and Sally had a son, Johnny.

One day Sally realizes she wants a divorce and moves to Missouri. That sounds normal enough until Joe says, “Hey, we never got married.” With no valid marriage, Sally can’t have a divorce and the family is now left in flux. What is Sally to do now? Who will get the house? Will she keep her car? Will they divide the retirement? Will Sally get alimony from Joe? In order for the court to address these issues, Sally has to prove that she and Joe did, in fact, enter into a common law marriage in Colorado.

Generally states allowing contracts of common law marriage have certain requirements for recognition. For example, Colorado requires that the couple has done a few things: (1) Cohabitate, (2) Mutually agree to be married, and (3) Openly hold themselves out to the public as married. Most other states recognizing contracts of common law marriage have similar requirements and, obviously, each of these requirements could be up for debate in court between husband and wife.

Although these situations are somewhat uncommon, if Sally is able to show that there was a valid common law marriage in Colorado, she may be able to receive a divorce in Missouri.

Be aware every situation is unique. If you have questions about your individual situation, please contact an attorney. This post should not be considered to have formed an attorney/client relationship and should not be considered legal advice.